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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Paying for it shouldn't have mattered. You and DH are going to have to give them a couple hard "no"s so they start to grasp that you can't be manipulated. What to say: "It's not the money, it's the time. We need some time just as our little family. We're sure you understand." And however much they bluster keep to your plans.[/quote] I agree. But what do I do when DH doesn't have the cahunas to say that? I'm tempted to stay behind and keep DC with me, but then I feel like they think I'm a worse wife/mom. [/quote] What about YOUR cajones? Nut up and YOU tell HIM "no way"![/quote] oh trust me. I"ve tried. he'll be sleeping on the couch tonight, I've been very upset. I've debated a hotel room even....[/quote] I hear you. Very similar situation. I debated divorce. But then, as someone suggested, we said no. Double win: I see these people less often and they actually respect me more.[/quote]
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