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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not normal - you or your wife have contributed to this. He would not say these things otherwise. Not good.[/quote]

Good thing you weighed in. Previously OP thought what happened was awesome.[/quote]

+1. What an ass.

As for OP, so sorry. This hits very close to home, and I'll be right there with you One day. My kids are younger, but there are only so many years of mom's constant hostility, screaming, crying, and threatening to harm herself before they realize these are not normal "arguments". Regret doesn't even describe it. [/quote]

Oh, and I'm sure you're a peach, PP. Yet another tired retelling of the saintly man and crazy woman.  :roll:  You're probably the worst thing that ever happened to her, and she and the kids will be better off without your pathetic trope of fragile masculinity dicking up the place.[/quote]

Some people are crazy.  However, a lot of times when I hear a woman is that unhinged I suspect there's a lot more going on at home.  What comes across in this post is the writer's hostility and contempt towards his wife.  I suspect that is part of this dynamic.  He hates her. [/quote]

There is no circumstance that justifies being chronically unhinged.  It is a contemptible trait.[/quote]

You hate her.  Your reaction to her unpleasant behavior is to withdraw and hate. Her reaction to being hated by her intimate partner  is to increase her bids for attention, classic symptom of a bid for attention is a threat for self harm. When you hate more, this escalates her becoming upset.  You interpret this as further evidence that she is randomly unhinged and withdraw and hate even more.  I don't think either one of you is great, because both parties feed this.  You clearly hate her.  The lack of empathy and hate shines through in your post. [/quote]

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