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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No interest in "succeeding" at dating.  Happy to date if I meet someone I like who is willing to accommodate my schedule. But past the point in life where I am going to give up the activities that are most important to me.  If a guy can't accept that not interested.  Also don't think a guy is responsible for my happiness.  Great to enjoy someone's company but I am responsible for me. And I know a lot more about what makes me laugh and excited then I did when married.  Would think that would be appealing to men out there.  A third way.  Not just sex.  But not marriage.  Two adults who really know themselv enjoying each other's company when both have time. [/quote]

Single mom here. What guy would sign up for this? I know a guy who is great on paper, also a father of 1, but he chairs a ton of activities for his frat, charities, etc. He was/is interested, but has no plans of cutting back his lifestyle and I am not interested in being penciled into his busy social calendar once in awhile. The message he sends is [b]"I will include you when convenient for me, but you will never be a priority." [/b]A FWB situation is what you guys are probably best suited for.[/quote]

This definitely wouldn't work for me, and I would see it as a huge red flag. My ex was like this and it turns out there was another woman involved the whole time (yes before and during our marriage).[/quote]

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