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[quote=Anonymous]I hear you, OP! This is so hard. My DH is adhd but only recognized once our DS diagnosed. He does help but I still have to monitor it all and always feel like a nag - even though he admits I have to.

I'm up at 4.15 am ( swim for other child) and I get coffe, unload dishwasher, start laundry, and make lunches. Often shower for work. Walk out door at 4:45 for 5 am swim. I'm organized and fast!! My DH gets up if I ask but he can only get dogs fed in that time!!!

DC definetly needs structure. I worked PT for years. It only gets HARDER as school work increases. Sorry but this is true. My DH totally gets it but he ( and I) have days where we lose it. I'm back full time and the $$ helps so much with tutor, therapist, now private school. Our DS is the love of our life and I will never give up. I joke that my tombstone will read " she never stopped trying." ADHD is real, it's brought me to my knees, years of  teArs, challenged my marriage, drained my finances, but I Will fight to the end to help my child. Take it day by day and just accept you are his only advocate. Hugs.[/quote]

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