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[quote=Anonymous]The net present value of your immigration paperwork is worth way more than $10,000, so maybe you should be happy for that? He clearly loves you and is a good guy, so you can't get too hung up on this. It seems like you have several options: 1. Accept that you'll get to choose the setting and shape of the diamond but not the size. Let him use his current budget and be happy you are getting the style of ring you want immediately. 2. Keep chasing that big ring but recognize that your expectations that he could save that much money so quickly were unrealistic. Don't get a ring now or get a very minimalist ring now and give him much longer to save up. 3. Start putting your money towards the ring as well. Making him save when you're already married is kind of a fiction to begin with. And, again, he did massively increase your earning potential by helping with your immigration. . . [/quote]
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