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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I relate completely. [b]It made me realize how much my being turned on was feeling that my body was hot and feeling that that's what my DH responded too.[/b] It's just my stomach that bothers me. It's really hard to feel sexy. :([/quote] This is an insightful point. I think this is a key difference between typical male and female sexuality. As a man, at least, this something that I hadn't fully realized. For men, sexuality is focused on the other person. It's very externally focused. For women, it seems to be much more internally focused. Women need to feel attractive and desired to enjoy sex. A man can have zero self-esteem and feel completely unattractive but still enjoy sex because for men it's about the other person. [/quote]
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