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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you considered talking to you gyno about why sex repulses you so much?

You might have a hormonal issue. Or maybe you married the wrong guy.[/quote]

Oh sex doesn't repulse me, and I'm not married (way too young for that).  I have a fairly high libido, actually- but if I dont want to have sex, we dont.  And my boyfriend respects that, simple as.

I would never try to force him into having sex if he didnt feel like it either.

It seems pretty simple.

Someone doesnt want to have sex with you- DONT HAVE SEX WITH THEM!  Why would you even want to? [/quote]

Of course you are not married, nor are you ready for it.  There are so many things we do for our spouses because they are our spouses.  And that includes having sex from time to time when we don't really feel up to it. Entitled to sex on demand -- no, of course not.  Entitled to expect sex on somewhat of a regular basis, yes.  Now, if he (or she) is not satisfied with the amount, then ultimately divorce (not force) may be the answer, but he (or she) is certainly entitled to the expectation.   [/quote]

Not really.  I would say if you expect someone to have sex with you even though they dont want it, then that's a major issue and emblematic of an entitlement issue that you need to seek help for.

Are people really not aware that people's libidos shift and change over time?  That women's libidos especially decrease with menopause?

I see a downright villainization of the wives that dont want to have sex and it's really shocking.

I guess my advice would be if you think marriage entitles you to sex without concern for your partner's libido or lack of interest- then don't get married.  [/quote]

Exactly.

- Old person married for many years. 
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