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[quote=Anonymous]16:19 here. By the way, I wasn't trying to make it sound like there's nothing at all you can or should do. Even if your little basket is annoying, you can still ask him to clean differently. I'd just avoid a lecture about how one cleans and instead say something like "I really bothers me when the counters are still hazy and there is grease on the floor. I appreciate you making dinner, but really need you to go over these spots once more" or whatever. If you've already had this conversation, then the follow-up is "look, I get that this may not seem critical to you, but it does to me. This is something I need you to do to make me happy." He will probably act kind of annoyed and then do it. He may also throw back in your face something he wants you to do, and you might need to grin and bear it. It's where you explain the true meaning of "clean" that the argument will devolve.[/quote]
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