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[quote=Anonymous]I know an affair would be one for me.

Do not place any blame on your marital issues from the past.

Remember that YOU were the victim in all of this.

I do think that divorce is not easy on any child, but they will be fine in the end.
Yes, it will be heart-breaking & sad in the beginning because after all....Their family dynamic will change significantly.

However in time they will adapt + move on from it.
Kids are a lot more stronger and adaptable than us adults give them credit for.

Yes, motherhood is all about sacrificing for the sake of our kids.
However to stay w/a man who has betrayed you in the worst possible manner that a husband can do, will have extremely detrimental effects for years to come.

Your children may have it engrained in them that this is a model for a typical marital union which will have devastating consequences later on in life.

Plus do you really want to invest yourself into someone who could carry on this deception for a year...??!

That is the equivalent of asking for the moon from my perspective.[/quote]

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