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Reply to "Is it okay to divorce a remorseful cheater when you have kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's ok, but really think about if it's what you want. It's not so horribly unbearable for the kids, although even the best divorce will be difficult for them. But it's not just your kids who'll be dealing with divorce, it's you. Do you really want to co-parent with whomever he marries, even if it's the affair partner? Do you really want to deal with all the hassles and scheduling of joint custody, and the financial hit? And remember that the divorce will be difficult for you and your kids as adults too. My parents didn't really think about that, but it's been hard on me caring for them separately, and they don't get as much care from me as they would like. It really cuts into their grandchild time as well. I would say at least try to reconcile. You can always change your mind and divorce later. If you divorce now, it's very hard to go back.[/quote]
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