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[quote=Anonymous]15. friend was making out with college guy in his dorm, I was along for the ride. His friend started giving me shots, making me drink, then making out with me and we had sex. I was only 15. I truly dont remember whether I said yes or no but I felt horrible later. I was far too young to be in that situation and it scares me to think about my kids having sex at that age, you really dont know what the hell you're doing. He was clearly trying to get me drunk.

17. I had a summer job as an intern for a video producer. He tried to kiss and grope me and wanted to date me. I quit.

18. college. making out with guy, we were both drinking of course. I repeatedly said no but did not scream or push him off. he ignored me and kept going and finally, after about 20 minutes, I just kind of gave in. I did not feel empowered to get up and walk out . I wanted him to like me, just not to have sex, which is probably why I thought I could keep things light. I made it clear I did not want to go further, but he did not listen. This is the kind of thing that I think happens all the time and I didn't recognize it as date rape but I felt horrible and ashamed later. I didn't want to have sex. I spent the next 2 years avoiding any intimate contact.

23. grad school, attempted [date] rape.  First date, I wasn't interested, he seemed uninterested, but insisted on walking me home. Then asked to use my bathroom. Once inside he started grabbing me, trying to kiss me, pinning me agains the wall. I screamed, yelled get the fuck off me, threw his keys and wallet out the window, etc. It was scary--he was a big guy and I sensed he was going to be violent.

A lot of what happened to me is not my fault, but I didn't have the self esteem or self possession to stop it, my desire to be liked and my anxiety about how unlovable I was did not help. I truly hope I raise both my son and daughter to love themselves more and only do what they want to do for themselves. [/quote]

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