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Reply to "He went out to lunch with another woman and lied about it."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP you are setting up a situation where he's forced to lie and be secretive. I'd lie to you too just to avoid your crazy over reactions. You had several "long" fights over some FB posts and likes?! And you thought he'd tell you about lunch and put up with even more of your BS?! You've created a dynamic where there is no way to tell if he's a lying cheat or just avoiding conflict with you over very normal things (lunch with a friend) because you've made everything high drama. Your two options are get yourself under control and see whether he's trustworthy or not when you're not boxing him into a corner or to accept that your dynamic is too off the rails and end the relationship now. As long as you're acting the way you are, you'll never have a healthy relationship with him.[/quote]
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