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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks for all the great advice - I truly appreciate it.  Just to clarify a few things - a lot of these occasions wouldn't really be characterized as 'going out,' really.  Just a casual dinner with the kids running around and the adults having a few beers, etc.

I have no issue at all going solo and I do that a lot but for whatever reason, it's usually couples at these things.  And I LIKE hanging out with him and having him there.  Also, the kids are little and wild and it's always helpful to have an extra set of hands with them - sure, I can leave one of them home, but that's not really fair to them.  He's now getting "known" as the one who's not usually there, leaves early, etc.  I don't like people thinking he's unfriendly or doesn't like them, but I realize that's not his issue to own.  I wish people could know the him that I know, if that makes sense.

I really like the idea of saying the number - hey, if we do these three things over the next month, I won't ask about anything else.  I'm also hoping as the kids get older and he has more time to himself hopefully, it may improve.

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