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[quote=Anonymous]I hear where you are coming from.  My DH is extemely anti-social.  Its gotten way worse with time. When we were in grad school where we met, he had more friends than I did, went to all the parties, etc.  Now, 20 years later, he won't go out at all (unless its with his brother or his best friend).  It sucks and its hurtful but really, your only option is to just carve out your own social life.  Find divorced friends to hang out with on the weekends so you don't have to deal with husbands looking for yours to talk to.  Go to events, activities, whatever it is that you want to do - with the kids or without.  He will probably be happier that you don't try to drag him to all of this stuff.  And you will be happier that you get to go out.  Sure, there will be moments of compromise where you want him to attend something.  I've gotten this down to a few dinner parties per year.  Other than that, I just leave DH alone.  He will go out to dinner just with me, which is fine.  Is it my ideal?  No way.  But its the hand life dealt me.  [/quote]

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