Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Is it normal to not feel excited about marrying him?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am happily married for 20 years now. I was engaged to my now-DH twice. The first time, we planned a fairly big wedding. Whole thing just seemed like a burden. We broke up for half a year but eventually got back together. When we decided a year after that to get married, we practically eloped - a very small wedding, planned in about 2 months, with just family. [b]In my experience, too many people plan weddings and not marriages. If you put too much stock into the wedding part, you are bound to be disappointed by the letdown as you head into marriage.[/b] But if you are not looking forward to spending your life with your fiance, you shouldn't marry him now. It might also help to meet with a counselor a few times, if you are so inclined, just to clarify things for yourself. Good luck.[/quote] I think that has been said before, but regardless, that is dead on. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
