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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are plenty of people who were anxious before a wedding and were happily married. [/quote]

[b]Why aren't they posting, then? This isn't a board called "Grievances of People for Whom Things Did Not Work Out."[/b] This is for all relationships, and both happily and unhappily married people read this.

I asked about OP's thoughts on the long future, but I'll also add, how do your friends and family feel about your relationship? If they have concerns, too, I would add them to your things to think about.[/quote]

Because this is a place where unhappy, negative people tend to post. That's true of most Internet forums,  really. People who are content and successful in their own lives don't usually spend of bunch of time in places like this.[/quote]

NP here -- Happy, content, successful, and in love with my husband.  I was so excited to marry him six years ago, and am excited to be married to him now.  I love his smile.  I love his walk.  He has perfected oral.  He's fun.  He's a fabulous father.  I want to be around him all the time.  I never for a second had cold feet before we got married, and neither did he.  
I didn't comment on the post because I can't relate personally, but I do believe there are people who were anxious and subsequently happy, and I am positive that there are people who aren't excited about the Getting Married aspect, but are excited about Being Married (which is more important anyway).

I too am curious whether OP is jittery about the wedding and preparations (go small -- it's such a huge relief!), or whether OP should delay and figure out her concerns.[/quote]

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