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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just realized at 35 that I am gay, I'm a women married to a man (well separated and getting divorced) with 2 small children 
After finally coming to this and telling my spouse I feel a huge weight has been lifted, I'm happier than I have been in years. My life is in total chaos but amongst the chaos I am at peace with myself. I have never felt so good 
It's a personal choice how you handle this....a friend said to me "sometimes you have to make a leap even if you don't know what will happen when you fall" I feel like my kids will be better off with a happy mother even if it means living in a separate house from their father, we are still friends and will co parent the best we can [/quote]

Just curious...are you really gay, or bisexual?  I've always wondered how a "gay" person could marry a person of the opposite sex and be aroused enough to make kids and still be totally gay, unless they were seriously in denial/faking it.  Wouldn't a person in this situation most likely be somewhere in the spectrum between gay and straight (i.e. bisexual)?[/quote]

I just think I never realized it until now, signs were there along the way but I had no idea, it took falling in love wth a women to realize it. Then everything kinda made sense. And I feel like myself, which I haven't felt for years and years. Not everyone figured out their sexual orientation at 16, sometimes people go through the motions because that's what they are "supposed to do" 
At this point I do not think I am bi, I've found what I've been looking for my whole life and that is being wth a women [/quote]

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