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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok OP is this a habit? Because if he is this nervous about telling you about a one-time splurge on something for himself than you have bigger problems than him lying. There is also whatever it is you're doing that makes him do something like this in secret. Its one thing if a spouse is racking up thousands on the cc without telling the other, its another to make one private splurgy purchase. One is financial infidelity, the other is human nature. [/quote] Sure, I know exactly why he didn't tell me. Because it's wrong. We are going without and our kids are going without in order to put as much money as we possibly can towards our debt. In no world would it be a sound idea to throw money away on something like that. We aren't eccentric billionaires, we're a struggling middle class family trying to get our feet back on the ground. In doing this, he has prioritized his own bizarre wants over the whole family. [/quote]
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