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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She should get her butt to an Al Anon meeting.  She will learn that she isn't responsible for his addiction.  They will help walk her through leaving him and guide her through taking care of her needs and her child's need and then working on still remaining supportive to her STBX.

She should speak to a lawyer so that she can protect her own finances and the assets.  Her DH is likely to spend down everything he can if he gets deeper into his addiction.  His bad behavior as a husband is probably directly related to his addiction as well. I say this as a recovering addict myself.

I wish them both good luck.[/quote]

This advice here is SPOT ON. ^^^^^^^

I'm the PP who said she didn't cause it, can't control it, and can't cure it.

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I agree.  I am the pp that stayed in the relationship and feels that was the right decision.  Not getting divorced doesn't mean that she should pretend everything is okay or bury her head in the sand.  She needs to take steps to protect and educate herself.  This is the time to do it.  
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