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[quote=Shineshelly]Irregular work hours can put a strain on any marriage! My husband is active duty military and in the ten years we have been together, has never had a set schedule. As his responsibilities have increased, the more erratic his schedule has become. Currently, he operates on two different schedules. Sometimes he will work from 7:30am-4pm, then the next day he will work 12pm-2am, and then next 3pm-11pm.

I have found that we have had to be very intentional in making time for one another when he is home. Regular date nights, and even delaying holiday celebrations by hours or days, because it means we can celebrate together have helped keep us closer. Also, making intentional time for God and my faith has helped me tremendously in keeping the proper perspective on life and an outlet to receive encouragement through life's challenges. One last thing that I have learned is that building a solid marriage can mean refraining from activities that keep me away from home when my husband is there. Volunteer responsibilities, committees or a class that meets each week may tempt me, but guarding my time with my husband requires that I say no often.

I hope you and your husband can find a way to connect despite the arduous work schedule! Hang in there! Praying for you.[/quote]

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