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[quote=Anonymous]I have a difficult MIL who crashed my hospital room 4 hrs post partum, wrote me an overwrought accusing email later that say, and who I eventually had to kick out of my house around a week PP because she was so impossible. Even so, I am glad she got the chance to see her grandson right after birth because in the next years she proved herself a devoted grandma and my son loves her so much. It turns out she is just really weird, not evil. I can see that her intentions are always good and authentic. If I ever had another baby I would definitely "let" her visit right away but probably would not let her stay longer than a few hours because she stresses me out so much. Basically, she has an independent relationship with my kids that does start at birth, so I have to do a certain amount of getting out of the way/taking one for the team. If she had not proven herself such a dedicated grandma I don't think I would be able to pull this off. [/quote]
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