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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some 22 year olds are more mature that 41 year olds.

They are both adults. [/quote]

I look at who I was at 22 and who I was at 41 - totally different brain and way of living.

I had lots of dating experience at 22.  In fact, my dating experience at 41 was largely based on all of the dates that I went on before I was 22 (although there were a few after that). Then I met dh and he was the one, no more dates.

So my actual dating history was largely the same at 22 as it was at 41.  The difference was perspective.  My perspective on those relationships changed a great deal between 22 and 41 to the point that me dating a 22 year old as a 41 year old would have been an imbalance of power on my part.

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Anecdotal. Every relationship with an age difference isn't going to be like that.
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It's a 20 year age difference.  The dude has been on the planet nearly twice as long as this young woman.  Unless he has been kept bubble wrapped in a closet somewhere he has 20 years of experience in everything than this young lady has.  Like it or not, that does make a difference.[/quote]

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