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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know you think this is not about the boyfriend, but it's entirely about the boyfriend. Why did she order a salad? Is it because of the boyfriend? Why did she take up running? Is it because of the boyfriend? Why won't she talk to me? Is it because of the boyfriend? You say you're not asking about the boyfriend, but you are.[/quote]

The salad incident and the running incident, if I recall correctly were 2 years apart and 2 years before the BF.[/quote]

Normal, supportive, loving sisters would ask "How's running going?" "How's your salad?"

By asking "why" you are making it a loaded, judgmental question. OP, you have posted many questions about your sister in the past few weeks. You need to leave her alone, and get your own life. I know people from the Middle East can often be busybodies when it comes to family members (I'm not Middle Eastern but do come from a Muslim family, so I've had a lot of experience with this). This is a cultural thing you're going to have to get over, if you ever want a relationship with your sister in the future.

Start living your own life, and stop being so obsessed with your sister's. Stop questioning her. And definitely don't just show up - respecting your sister means respecting her space. 
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