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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It depends on how much i care about the girl. There should be one that is worth it.[/quote]

I can say, being the "girl" on the end of this, that I feel very secure (in an emotional way). I was dating 2 people at the same time. Both knew we weren't exculusybe, I wasn't doing anything sketchy. About 8 weeks in, I had to choose one, and I chose the one I knew better because the other was travelling 2 weeks a month while we were dating. Fast forward to 6 months later, and the guy I chose and I didn't work out. Hadn't talked to the "other" guy since I told him I was becoming exclusive with first guy. "Other" guy got in touch literally 10 days after I broke up with the first guy. He didn't know if split from the first guy, just hoped I had, and in the interim had gotten a job that requires less travel. Several months later, he admitted that he went to his boss after I ended things with him and said "this job is ruining my life" and transferred to one that requires less travel.

Point being is, I know he's going to be in positions that require more travel in the future. I also trust that, based on his previous actions, if it really means the success of our relationship or not, he'll choose our relationship. and that makes it a lot easier to be supportive of his career. [/quote]

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