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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this is 20:48 again.  It makes me sad to hear about your situation.  It sounds like the children are also affected by the emotional abuse.  Know that this is *not your fault,* and you don't deserve to be spoken to disrespectfully or treated poorly by the man who promised to love and cherish you.

You owe it to your children to take good care of them, and that also means taking good care of their mommy -- you. You have to be your own best friend here.  What would you tell a friend in the same situation?

It is a huge and scary step to think about leaving a spouse.  Take baby steps if you have to. First, start getting the information you need. Please do go to the hotline.org.  It's completely anonymous and available 24 hours.  If you click on the link "Get Help," they have contact info for all local programs by state.  There are also links to lots of other helpful information. Having information does not mean you have to act on it immediately.  But you can start to plan.

Right now your husband's abusive behavior has you afraid and confused, but you'll start to feel better as you work to regain your lost confidence.  Do you remember the person you were before?  That's the mommy your children deserve to see.  Good luck, I really wish you the best.[/quote]

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