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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would look at it as you found out up front what you were working with. Would you feel better if you had waited the 3 dates, invested your time & energy and then he didn't call?[/quote]

Most decent guys don't want anything long term with women who do that.  When she did that she kind of made that choice it wasn't going anywhere.[/quote]

[b]If a guy wouldn't want a long term relationship with a woman because she's open to one night stands, literally by definition he isn't "a decent guy", he's a piece of shit[/b].[/quote]

So if a woman wants a one night stand with a man but he tells her that is not what he is interested iguy n, he isn't a decent guy?  What kind of convoluted logic is that?  Maybe to him sex is not something you do on a casual basis.  But I guess this is DCUMland, where unless you have a large number of partners and are totally uninhibited and the man is not completely in agreement with this, well, you are just a pathetic guy......[/quote]

If the guy personally wants to wait, then hey, fine for him, and she can choose to take it slow with him if she wants -- but that doesn't mean it's valid for him to have an opinion about her having one night stands with other people.

The key flaw here is in assuming that having one night stands marks you as a "certain type of person", rather than just being a personal preference and nothing more.[/quote]

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