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Reply to "I worry he's a narcissist just like my ex. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would take it slow - how he respects your pace will tell a lot about him. If you don't say "I love you" back, does he get upset?[/quote] I don't recommend tests like this. OP would be turning into the controlling narcissist she fears. OP, continue on with your current boyfriend. If he starts to engage in controlling behavior, leave. That is all you can do in any relationship. You are understandably anxious. You have gotten burned. But being afraid of relationships is life-limiting. Protect yourself by not sticking around when you are being abused and controlled. That's not the same as living in a state of perpetual fear and anxiety. Try some mindfulness exercises, which will teach you the difference between constantly feeling like a tiger is on your tail and being appropriately vigilant. I think that's your real problem.[/quote]
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