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[quote=Anonymous]OP it is very smart of you to watch for repeating the same mistake twice. There are some red flags in your comments about him. Here are some other ones to look out for.

How does he treat people? Waiters, busboys, service people etc. have you ever caught him being rude  or talking down to them? This happened with my ex and I brushed it off in the beginning.

What is this guys background? Does he come from a nice loving home, or are his parents divorced...any abuse or other reasons that would make him more likely to be a narcissist.

Does he try to overtly have the attention of everyone if you go out with friends? Throws money at things to impress other people?

Has he asked you about exes and wants detailed information on all of them? this is where the jealousy part comes in.

Maybe you need to cool off a bit and see how he reacts. Sounds like you are getting swept away again. He can't keep up the facade forever if he is truly a narcissist...sooner or later he will break. I also think you need to get off the "I could see myself marrying him" bandwagon. Its only been a few months.

I think its smart to look out for yourself. Now that you are aware of the signs - you will know deep down if there is a problem - its whether or not you choose to accept it.[/quote]

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