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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are married and have children, but you find yourself fleetingly attracted to a new friend.  It is normal to feel flashes of attraction to people other than your spouse; as long as you have a pulse, you'll have those feelings.  But you don't ACT on them because marriage is about more than superficial initial attraction.  You would be selfish and superficial to act upon this.  Just because the person is of the same gender does NOT make it OK to abandon your marriage or indulge in your crush.  Seriously, if your friend were male, you wouldn't be posting here.  So you just discovered that you have a same-sex attraction and might enjoy physical intimacy with a woman?  So what?  You'd probably also be attracted to (male celeb star of your choice) if you met him, but you wouldn't abandon or weaken your marriage to indulge in a fling just for that reason, right?

Grow up, OP.  Seriously.  [/quote]

What if it were more than superficial, initial attraction?  
I don't think you can compare it with a crush on a male celeb. For one thing, that is about the definition of acting on infatuation.
Women can provide to women something that men can't. [/quote]

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