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[quote=Anonymous]I think her feelings are valid. It is fine to recognize the differences between you and your sister but to constantly point them out to her is only annoying and depending on the topic, mean. It really doesn't matter if you will roll to CVS in your gym clothes and she wants to put on full make up and a dress. She doesn't want to hear your commentary on her clothes as much as you don't want to hear commentary on yours. Don't compare with what you can say with your friends and how they would react because she is her own person, her own feelings and own belief. If you know it will upset her, don't say it. The acne example invalidates her feelings because you believe your acne is worse. She can still be upset and bothered by her skin. You can be upset and bothered by your skin. It isn't a competition of whose skin is worse and the way you handled it sounds like you are dismissing her feelings. She said you weren't supportive because you weren't supportive.[/quote]
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