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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I know this is going to sound harsh, but I think you sound very immature and selfish. If this blows up, your child will be hurt AGAIN."

+million. Hugh change OP is a troll, but in the off chance she isn't, WTF are you thinking?
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+1.  Date for at least a year and spend a LOT of time talking about your pasts, what kind of maariage you want, how to co-parent, where you would live, how you would handle finances all the way thru college funding and retirements, whether you would have pre-nups and how you would handle things if you broke up, how your ex's and their custody would be managed, etc.  then at the end of a year you still feel like marriage is a good fit, intoduce the adults and children and spend another year hetting to know one another in this context.  Watch how the adults and children interact. Watch how ghe other adult parents.  Then at the end of the second year, if all is still well, plan for a wedding at the end of year 3.[/quote]

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