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[quote=Anonymous]This entire situation shows that your marriage has areas of trouble that need to be worked on. Marriage takes a mutual heart of love and respect for the other person. You are both responsible for your child, and for the income of your family. One person doesn't need to be marginalized or elevated. What this situation shows is that you need to work on your ability to communicate in a considerate way, to exclude outside people (relatives) in decisions you make together and to work on setting a list of priorities. I am sure this is not the first difficulty you both have had. I imagine there is a pattern of rough decisions being made that are not mutual.

If you can't work on talking and listening to each other respectfully the entire marriage will suffer, since communication is what a solid relationship is built upon. It is the foundation of a marriage. So I would try to discuss it calmly again with a willingness to hear out each other and if you can't do it alone go to a counselor.

You have very valid points, but at this junction in your marriage the solution to this problem is not the major issue, the ability to communicate in a healthy way and to come to mutual decisions is. [/quote]

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