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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How does going to a private school avoid stigma?   Your child is just stigmatized by a different group of kids.[/quote]

Depends on what kind of stigma you are afraid of?

Stigma from peers or stigma from school administrators and teachers.

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For my child, I found that school administrators and teachers at our private school were poorly trained in special needs and weren't able to handle my child's special needs.  They were quick to label him a "bad kid" and me "a bad parent." They were terrible, even when I was willing to spend money to have a psychologist meet with them to discuss what might make the situation better. The kids and their families weren't much better. My child was definitely "the weird one" and I was definitely labeled "the bad mom."  It was a very high achieving group of parents and I felt like they thought they were going to catch something from us.

I quit in frustration and we trooped off to public school.

Our public school was terrific. We gave them a heads up on the way in and we had an IEP meeting right away. My child got terrific pull out supports and ST and a school psychologist. The public school emphasized tolerance and diversity and respect for others over "achieve at any cost."  The teachers were trained in SNs and had resource people to call for help if they were frustrated. My child made friends and was accepted by his classmates. He had a lot of work to do on classroom behavior, but he got through it.  He is now a happy, thriving 7th grader who excels in mainstream honors classes at his public junior high school.

Public school and an IEP saved my kid.  [/quote]

can you share the school district?[/quote]

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