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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. PP nailed it on the head by mentioning the ups and downs that I'm trying to protect her from. That's exactly my worry. But the practical suggestions you shared just wouldn't work. I work and since the shots have to be 12 hours apart there's no way to do them all at work. I need to take one in the morning when she's interrupting me 5 times to ask me what to wear and one at night when she wants me to watch Dance Moms reruns or help with homework. And we only have one fridge at home. (And our neighbors are not people I want to involve in this and be randomly bothering them in the am or pm.) And in fact, I will be having to leave my house before she goes to school on all my monitoring days so I can do it before heading to work. And if there is any weight gain, she'll be on me like a hawk. She has noticed my previous 3 pregnancies within WEEKS because of bloating.  She's like a Seeing Eye Kid, this one.  :)  Hiding the shots is frankly going to be impossible. Hiding the appointments, impossible. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is which is worse for her... watching her stress out from not knowing what's really going on and feeling like she's only getting half-truths from us or giving her an explanation that might be too much for her to be able to mentally/emotionally process and having her go through what is very difficult emotionally for adults, let alone kids. [/quote]

She's smart, you're lucky. But you are the parent. Go in the bedroom/bathroom and shut the door and give yourself the shot. I had one type of stim that needed to be refrigerated all the time, the other..Menopur I think, only the left over mix in the vial needed to be, so it was a small bottle in the door - up high. And I hate to say it, but that 12 hour thing isn't hard and fast. I never knew about it until after having my first DS. I definitely did shots every night, but it wasn't at the exact same time. There was probably a 3 hour window where I did it nightly. Except for the trigger shot, I didn't observe a strict regimen. When you go on the Ganirelix -- the AM shot, I ran out at one point and the doc just gave me a syringe at my monitoring appointment, which had to be as solid 2 hours outside of my normal injection time. OP - give yourself a break, the stress of dodging this kid isn't good for you...[/quote]

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