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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I don't condone her actions, I think that she probably does need a friend. I've seen my friends through some pretty crazy stuff and have been a good, solid, nonjudgmental friend. You might be surprised and find yourself needing a nonjudgmental friend someday, and she'd probably be happy to return the favor. [/quote] This is IMO what a real friend does. You say she's your best friend and that you talk every day even though she's in London. So you care about this person. Something about her made you like her and feel close to her. Instead of giving in to your judgment or being livid, ask yourself: what did it take for this person I like and care about to get to this point? What would it take to get me flailing wildly for sex or affection or attention? What would I do if my husband were drunk in bed for an extended period? Sit with that thought. Then consider whether you'd want someone to abandon you in such circumstances. [/quote]
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