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[quote=Anonymous]My best friend is in this same place except let it fester and now they hate each other. All because her husband isn't ambitious about his career. Think of you life at 80 yrs old. What would be important to you at that point because you have two reasonable choices. First, admit you made a mistake and diviorce. Think through ALL the consequences therein. Impact on child, loneliness, dating with child, him dating with child and you have no control over that situation, possible blended families for your child and yourself, etc.

Second choice: you accept your husband for who he is warts and all and support him so he can become his best self so that you can become your best self. Find what you loved about him, let him take on the home responsibilities so you can really soar at work. Be proud of your families non-Traditional approach to forming  a family and own your choices. How will your child feel in this scenario? How will your husband feel? How will you feel? My DH could have written this lost about me and yet because I am a dw it doesn't occur to him that me working part time and caring for the house is an issue because I am a woman. Don't let sex roles get in the way of your Perfectly happy and functional 
life. And keep having sex - which will make him all the better at supporting your career.

Good luck op - we are rooting for you to find your best path![/quote]

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