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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a couple of months away from leaving my unhappy marriage. I've been married for 9 years to an angry man who has been emotionally abusive and emotionally unavailable to me.  My husband makes twice as much money as I do and never lets me forget it.  He has told me that I'm lucky he puts up with me and that I'm ungrateful for everything he does for me.  I was completely independent before our marriage and took care of myself.  He now tells me that I can't take care of myself without him. I'm getting ready to leave and all the terrible things he has said to me keep playing in my head.
I'm so scared to leave, but would be more scared to stay.
We don't have any children, thank God.  I have been in therapy dealing with this, but could really use some BTDT wisdom from others.  Thank you![/quote

This is a horrible person, same kind I married. Today he is still miserable and not married, I looked on FB...lol.

He actually told me my degree was worthless and his was great though he always hated his jobs and changed them often.  When he didn't know I had long planned to divorce him he told me he liked the dogs better than me.  We moved to a new state for his new job, so I still wasn't working after 6 mo and had family come to visit. After they left he told me I'd better get a job by a certain date or he'd divorce me, lol. I made sure to take a year off after that because I knew I could always get a job, and since he made decent money I could still sock plenty away.

OP are you working, and putting money away?[/quote]

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