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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you date divorcees?[/quote]

I'm 31 , not 51. I don't need any extra drama or baggage. If I was a divorcee, then I would be ok with it. I would rather date a widow than a divorcee. [/quote]

You are very judgmental.  You are assuming that if got divorced before age 30, there is baggage.  There are people I know that got divorced that do not have kids, so what baggage are you referring to?  [/quote]

Kids are not "baggage".  They're kids.

The baggage is the emotional (and other) fallout from a committed and then failed relationship.  The baggage is the unresolved (or even resolved) crap from one's family of origin and upbringing.  Things like that.

Everyone has baggage.  The older you are the more you collect.  The question is whether it is neatly packed away and accessible or whether it is a mess and creates more mess.[/quote]

NP but, someone with a string of failed relationships is better than a divorced person? A failed relationship is a failed relationship whether or not it led to marriage so counting out a divorced person (w/o kids) seems silly to me.

That said, everyone sets their own criteria when dating and he wants those specific criteria. I would think, however, that a decent looking guy with good credentials could easily find someone who fits those parameters in this area -- this is DC! smart single never married women abound! -- so the PPs who say something in the milk aint clean with OP are likely on to something. [/quote]

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