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[quote=Anonymous]OP, when you say his ex was not thrilled about the divorce, do you mean that he left her? Really think about whether you want to marry a man who left the mother of his children. Can you and your boyfriend afford all these kids? What happens if he has a change in his income, or if one of the kids ends up having some expensive special needs? How will you feel when you are not able to spend money as you wish, because of his agreement with his ex? If her income drops, he will have to pay more. Whatever you do, don't buy into the "children are resilient" crap. That's just the excuse adults make for treating children badly. Divorce can be profoundly traumatizing for young children and take years for them to recover. Not all kids, but some. You need to be realistic about it.[/quote]
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