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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was this perhaps an abusive marriage and you aren't focusing on that in therapy? Oddly, they can be the most difficult to dissociate from, particularly if there was a lot of gas-lighting and general mind-fuckery. [/quote] OP here and yes he was verbally and emotionally abusive. But I put up with it when I should have stood up for myself and my kids, and the fact that his new GF doesn't put up with it just brings the point home. I can't even say "she'll find out what a jerk he is" because she won't allow it. That's what makes me feel like I wasted my life.[/quote] Some people bring out the worst in each other. You didn't waste your life, you learned some valuable information about yourself that you can apply to your next relationship. Not a waste![/quote]
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