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[quote=Anonymous]After a year of battles I'm now in possession of a signed agreement. If you are like me, you have allowed him too much say in your life. It took me far too long but I finally realized that you DO NOT ENGAGE with this man after you move out. Send an email stating the terms of any conversation you cannot avoid (say, about the kids) and if he breaks those terms (say, using pejorative language, not reading before responding, etc.) you shut down the conversation and call your own shots. Anything related to the divorce itself must go through your attorney. My ex used a high-flying lawyer who spent our money. We should have separated accounts at the beginning. One friend did a smart thing: ask to separate accounts before tipping your hand that you want a divorce. Just say you would feel more comfortable that way.[/quote]
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