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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like she grew up and got tired of partying. Happens to all (ok, most) of us eventually. And yes, you do sound a little jealous that she broke the rules and still has a great outcome. I think that's a normal human reaction, but you might want to work on it a little.[/quote]

This is OP.

THIS! The rest of us girls are pretty homely looking, sure but we are preppy and put together and haven't really fooled around and only date guys we think are serious. [b]We follow "The Rules" [/b]and here is our one friend who literally did everything the exact opposite way and she has a really great guy fawning over her and reading to propose. I guess all that grooming and manners can't compete with serious good looks![/quote]

OK, bolded is why you are not finding "the one".  Those "rules" are stupid.  I asked my DH about supposed dating rules, and he said he never followed them. DH likes natural beauty rather than one that is made up.  A lot of guys I know feel this way, too.  I don't think a lot of men these days really care about a woman's past in terms of sexual partner. If they do, they are usually kind of insecure and maybe a bit hypocritical because, let's face it, most men would love to have experience with a lot of women.

That said, I don't have much of a history myself, and was a lot like you OP - not strikingly naturally beautiful and a rule follower.  I still managed to find a great guy, though maybe by your standards, he might be much of a catch since he doesn't have a great body, isn't gorgeous, and doesn't come from money though he did and does earn six figures (so do I, btw).  But he found me naturally beautiful enough, and we are compatible in many other ways.[/quote]

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