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[quote=Anonymous]"Write a note-to-self, to remind yourself one lonely year from now why you thought this was a good idea. It may give you strength some winter night in an empty cold bed, when you start to have second (or third) thoughts."

I did this and do this - not when I'm feeling lonely, but when I'm wondering if I did the right thing.  Our brains have an amazing way of blocking out bad memories, so its not until I look at my notes (which I put together in order to process the end of the relationship) that I remember how crazy things were and how dysfunctional the relationship was.

And to 11:50 - Well, I happen to think that providing my kids with one functional home that could be a calm, safe and predictable place was better for them than continuing as things were. It's not like I wanted to no longer be married, its that I didn't feel like there was any other choice, given the emotional problems of my ex. So, no, it was definitely not the "path of least resistance to give up." [/quote]

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