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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you're mourning the mother you wish you had. Allow yourself to feel hurt and grieve the relationship but it's probably time to move on. You don't want your kids seeing her treat you like that - or worse, have her treat them that way. Focus on your growing family and be the mother you wanted to have. Hugs. [/quote] +1 to [i]all of this[/i]. This is a huge loss for you, the mother you wish you had, the mother you may have convinced yourself that you had. Find a great therapist to help you process this, and let her go entirely. I'm saying this as someone who has been there. It's really painful and not a quick process to "get it" and be able to let go, but I would validate to you based on the info you've shared that this would be a healthy and appropriate step for you to take. [/quote]
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