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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Recently"... leave your husband alone. No one should be expecting normalcy at this time. If this is still a problem in two or three years, we can talk.[/quote]

It's been about a month. My MIL thinks that's enough time. She doesn't see it as a huge deal because he had a good life. I think she's just scared

I understand he needs time and I'm trying to give him that, but he won't communicate with the in-laws , so MIL is driving me mad. His father and brothers have been relatively silent.[/quote]She doesn't think it is a big deal because it isn't a big deal. Your Dh needs to get a grip.[/quote]

If it wasn't a big deal she should have told him.
It's not a big deal that FIL is not his bio dad. The big deal is that it was kept from him all these years and then blurted it out thoughtlessly.  I doubt he'd have a problem.  Given the details I can understand why they didn't tell him as a kid, , but he's been an adult for  over a decade now. Why she didn't sit him down and have a heart to heart   is beyond me.[/quote]

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