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[quote=Anonymous]Depends on the therapist but I stopped wanting to go after a few appointments. We went to two, after a while with the first one it got really old and really unhelpful to just keep harping on the bad things, I swear some of them do it to keep you unhappy and keep you coming back every week to pay that fee. The second one was full of silly sayings that were just not helpful and were almost condescending in how dumbed down they were "intimacy is not about sex, intimacy= into-me-see and is about emotional connection" oh really? Ya don't say? Cause we are 15 and don't already know that? All her "homework" was equally lame. So we just quit and basically decided we wanted to be happy together again and decided that we would focus on making the other person happy in the relationship and after a while it stopped being an act and an effort and just became reality. For it to work both people have to want to do it but it is the same with therapy; no amount of effort is going to make someone want something they don't have interest in anymore.[/quote]

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