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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I don't get what you are saying---he says yes he will go but doesn't really mean it? WTF? Get the name of a counselor and set up an appointment and inform your DH of when it is and say you want him to be there and it is important to you. Make it happen. If he refuses to go, tell him you will be going to see the counselor on your own to talk about how to deal with a marriage to a partner who will not make an effort for the relationship. You may have to try a couple of counselors. Both you and your DH should be comfortable with the counselors. (My DH and I bailed on one and found another who was a better fit for us.) You can say that to him--"I set up an appointment for us to interview a counselor. If you are not comfortable with her/him we can find someone else--it's important that we find someone we can both trust to help us." [/quote]
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