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[quote=Anonymous]We are in a similar situation. ILs live in CA and SIL in OR. MIL comes to see us about 4-5 times a year and FIL joins her maybe twice on those trips. She sees SIL about once every 6-8 weeks, will spend a week at a time in OR to help watch the kids if they are out of school, etc. We have never been able to fly out to see MIL w/o SIL coming too and I find it totally annoying. We invited SIL and her kids out here to spend a week with us this Summer and guess what? She told MIL and FIL to come too so we "can all be together". :evil: Of course MIL jumped all over it and they are coming too. I was actually really looking forward to showing SIL our town (they have never been) and letting the cousins enjoy each other for once. I'm pissed but it's already done. So, I decided that rather than stress out about 6 people crashing at our house and me playing hostess, I told them they can all stay together someplace else. They are renting a VRBO townhouse a mile from us and now I don;t have to host! For DH and I, this was a nice compromise b/c hosting them here is stressful and now we can retreat to our own house in the evenings and relax and unwind.[/quote]
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