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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is normal, I think; they feel like they are with their nuclear family, even though that's not necessarily how you see it.

Pick your battles, but set some boundaries. And set a schedule and communicate!

Two days out, call them: "Mom, during your visit, I've prepared lasagna for Friday, chili for Saturday, and we will do Thai take-out for Sunday. I've also gotten your basics: cottage cheese, low fat yogurt and Raisin Bran. If you want to bring more food, let me know now because I don't have a lot of fridge space left."

Before the TV goes on: "We can check headlines for half an hour, then I need the TV off in the den. If you want to watch more, feel free to go to the rec room."

Give where you can, but speak up if you need to! How will they know your boundaries/preferences if you don't set/communicate them?[/quote]

Obviously, you were not taught how to make guests feel comfortable.  They are are there for, maybe one week, and they're older and are set in their ways. Be generous because one day this will be you![/quote]

You're either a doormat host or a pushy guest--which is it?[/quote]

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