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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you all care that he cheated or were you just more embarrassed? [/quote]

22:56 here.... Of course I cared. The revelation of his cheating (multiple) all came to light at the same time. It causes you to question everything you ever thought to be true. I don't remember the feeling of embarrassment as much as I do the feeling of just wanting to die... actually it was like someone close to me died. I don't know why I stayed (no one pressured me) other than he was extremely remorseful and willing to do whatever it took to stay together. Looking back now, I sometimes wonder if I just failed to recognize that as his controlling narcissistic personality, not willing to let me go..although he screwed up. "He" was probably the one more worried about the "embarrassment" if the truth became widely known.

Other posters wrote about PTSD like symptoms that follow this sort of thing and I can identify. I am still affected today and can honestly say I will probably always question if I did the right thing by staying. I had a two young children at the time (one was a newborn) so that played into my vulnerability too. [/quote]

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